The OC Crossroads//The Official Blog of Crossroads

Series Begins April 22

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Fall Series

2008-09-10T07:54:00.000-07:00

Are you undercover?

Join us as we expose the subtle but rampant tactics the enemy uses against believers-the failure to recognize and properly relate to Divine authority. Learn how the kingdom of God is ruled by a King, and how to live under His blessing.

2008-07-17T13:56:00.000-07:00

A new series dealing with real confessions from real Christians. Starting July 23 in Crossroads.

2008-04-10T12:29:00.000-07:00

As most of you are aware, blogging is out and Facebook is in. So please join us at the OC Crossroads Facebook!

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December 26: 7pm...

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Join the Crossroads family as we head out on the ice to perform daring feats of skating. We'll skate at red arrow park downtown, on the corner of Water St. and Kilbourn Ave. Starbucks coffee is rinkside, so you can warm up over a latte. Practice your triple axel, and see you there!

2007-12-05T09:56:00.000-08:00

Spanish Ministry Annual Christmas Fiesta
Saturday, December 15, 1:30 p.m., Gym
Please see flyer at the Information Desk and register no later than December 9, 2007!

CHILDREN’S CHRISTMAS PROGRAM
Sunday, December 16th, 7:00 p.m.

Kingdom Kids Choir Presents:
The Mystery of the Manger: It’s the Gospel Truth
Early Childhood Christmas Program: The Birthday Party for Jesus

Christmas Potluck Dinner
featuring “Fishsticks” Christian Comedy Team
Wednesday, December 19, 6:30 p.m., Gym

Sunday, December 23
Morning services at 8:00 & 10:30 a.m.
No Evening Service

Christmas Eve (Monday, December 24)
Evening Service: 6-7:00 p.m.

Wednesday, December 26, No Services

Sunday, December 30
Morning services at 8:00 & 10:30 a.m.
Year-In-Review, 6:00 p.m.

2007-11-20T17:20:00.000-08:00

Mark your calendars for a great time this Christmas! Join Crossroads for a celebration in the 3rd ward. A posh clubhouse, great food, music, snow, gift exchange, and games make this party a highlight. The Crossroads Christmas Party: December 15 at 6pm, Jefferson Block Clubhouse, Downtown.

Coming Soon...

2007-09-22T10:20:00.000-07:00

A Crossroads tradition! Join us as teams compete in a race to the finish line, navigating through a dark corn field in Walworth county. What could be better? Carpooling from the south lot at church at 5pm.

Crossroads Jamboree: it won't be complete without you! Hayrides, delicious food, bonfire, fireworks (maybe), friends, games & you. All at a picturesque farm in Random Lake.

2007-09-11T17:20:00.000-07:00

Join us for a powerful, down to earth journey into the human soul. Through scripture, stories & conversation, we’ll examine our deepest longings, and how they point to the existence of and our need for God. This series is based on the book 'Soul Cravings' by Erwin McManus, and is available in the church bookstore.

Oak Creek Assembly of God
7311 S. 13th Street
Oak Creek, WI 53154
www.oakcreekag.org

Hello Milwaukee!

2007-07-12T11:35:00.000-07:00

Last night Tom Murray brought this lovely piece to my attention!

2007-07-10T13:25:00.000-07:00

Unleash the Untamed Faith Within

2007-06-29T13:56:00.000-07:00

Join us as we begin training for NYC! Sunday morning at 9:30am in C-112.

June 27: 6pm...

2007-06-17T05:49:00.000-07:00

Soak in some rays at the Crossroads Pool Party! Enjoy swimming, volleyball, basketball, lawn games, great food, and new friends. This will take the place of our normal Crossroads gathering on June 27. Your friends are welcome!

Location: Jake & Josh Olson's House
16880 W. Sundown Ct. New Berlin, WI

Contact Info

Phone: 262.271.5762 Email: jakeolson9@earthlink.net

My Story: Santy Perez

2007-06-14T10:12:00.001-07:00

My Story: Mike Peppers

2007-06-14T10:11:00.001-07:00

Crossroads: June 13 @ 7pm...

2007-06-12T16:50:00.000-07:00

We’ll investigate this strange gathering of people and find out what it says about God, and us. In fact, could it be that God wants us to have more parties today? To truly live life to the full and invite others to do the same? Find out this Wednesday @ 7pm

What if we didn’t assume our friends would say ‘no’? What if we extended an invitation to any and everybody to experience the community we enjoy in Crossroads? What if we introduced others to Jesus? Next Wednesday is ‘if’ night: invite a friend! Free pizza and lawn games to follow.

Mission NYC: August 2007

2007-05-31T14:21:00.000-07:00

My Story: Rachel Ziegler

2007-05-31T09:32:00.001-07:00

My Story: Jesus Vital

2007-05-31T09:05:00.000-07:00

Jesus Vital shares about coming to faith in Christ. Just one of the many great stories in Crossroads.

2007-05-11T13:50:00.000-07:00

In Crossroads this May...

2007-05-04T13:17:00.000-07:00

The biggest lies are the ones we never notice.

Meet four deceivers who share a common goal: your gradual destruction. You can't see them. You can't hear them. And you'd swear you'd never believe them. But when the rules are bent, lives are broken. And by the time you notice, it's already too late. Join us Wednesdays at 7pm for Twisted, a series by northpoint.

Conference this weekend...

2007-04-19T09:22:00.000-07:00

Crossroads has been personally invited to a conference this weekend greared towards youth and college students. Tickets are even being offered for free, so don't let cost prevent you from this opportunity. To learn more about the conference, click here.

Easter Musical 'Sacrifice'

2007-04-13T12:36:00.000-07:00

Weather Notice

2007-04-11T16:16:00.000-07:00

Crossroads will still be meeting tonight, Wednesday, April 11 at 7pm! Drive safe!

Brunch in the Park: Fashion Show!

2007-03-27T14:22:00.001-07:00

Brunch in the Park

2007-03-24T09:27:00.000-07:00

Spring is in the air, and our brunch is tomorrow!

Many have asked where the Brunch is located. It is at the Boerner Botanical Gardens in Whitnal Park. Click here for a map. I recommend taking Rawson Ave to 92nd Street, turn right, then at the next 4 way stop turn left into the park, and follow the signs.

Please meet us inside the conservatory building, in the foyer, between 12:30 and 12:45 so we can take pictures. We will be seated at 1pm. If you haven't paid yet, please bring $25 in cash. See you there!

Home Fellowship Groups Tonight at 7pm!

2007-03-23T07:39:00.000-07:00

Crossroads Couples: for all married and engaged couples. With Jeff & Britnia Papendorf. 3230 S. 85th St. in Milwaukee. For more info call Jeff or Britnia at 414-604-1592.

Crossroads Classic: For everyone else! Different Location! Meeting at Jon Brooks’ condo this month: 210 W. Oak Leaf Dr #3 in Oak Creek. Info? call Jon at 762-2010.

Pictures from 'Party in the Ward'

2007-03-13T16:41:00.000-07:00

On February 28th Crossroads celebrated 4 years of existence with an afterparty in the Third Ward. Thanks goes out to Deric, Salisa & everyone else who helped make it a great night!

In Pictures...Sunday After Dark

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All ladies are invited this Saturday for breakfast and conversation. For all the details, click here for the Crossroads Calendar.

Sunday After Dark

2007-03-06T13:31:00.000-08:00

Thanks to everyone in Crossroads who greeted, ushered, and served Sunday night!

Sunday After Dark begins with a video intro.We were able to learn some great new worship songs Sunday night.

Again, thanks to everyone who helped serve! You are a fantastic first impression to our church.

A surprise from the evening was how many people wanted to purchase the Crossroads shirt. Kids from 10 years old to adults in their 40's, numerous people all wanted to identify with us via wearing our clothing. Then it struck me. Are kids looking up to us as cool? As role models? Parents asked me if they could purchase our shirts for their kids, and I agreed, stating that they would be a walking billboard for Crossroads. Perhaps people older and younger do look up to us. Perhaps many in our community are role models for the church as a whole. Perhaps this influence is a gift from God. Sunday After Dark left me with the perception that this indeed is our reality. May we model character, servanthood, and crazy good times for the next generation.

Celebrate 4 Years of Crossroads...

2007-03-01T12:45:00.000-08:00

The New Crossroads shirts are in, and they're hot. Put one on for $10, and you'll be hot too. Plus, you'll be able to help us serve this Sunday, March 4th at Sunday After Dark. If you have an interest in greeting, ushering, or helping in the cafe, contact me!

2007-02-27T08:59:00.000-08:00

Today is a day of prayer and fasting at the church, and you're invited to participate! The prayer room is open all day until 9pm, and I will be in there from 7-8pm tonight.

Just in from Sunburst...

2007-02-24T08:05:00.000-08:00

A manager from Sunburst Ski Area called me this morning, and informed me they will be closing the ski hill today, and cancelled our outing. Perhaps we will try for a later date. Stay warm and safe this weekend, and see you tomorrow in Sunday School! We have a great topic about the 'off road' discipline of humility.

Coffee this Friday...

2007-02-15T13:37:00.000-08:00

Brandi Rouse would like to invite you to...Dunn Brothers Coffee Shop (right off Ryan Road, just east of 27th Street) this Friday from 7-9pm. Enjoy entertainment, fellowship, friends, and of course the opportunity to buy some drinks.

2007-02-14T08:39:00.000-08:00

Stay up to date on the activities of Crossroads with the new Crossroads Calendar! You will find the link for the calendar on the links to the right, and in your weekly e-mail. Your feedback is welcome.

Sean Bolli on a mission...

2007-01-26T08:21:00.000-08:00

Sean Bolli, who starting attending Crossroads in 2006 left this past fall for an internship with 'YWAM' or Youth With A Mission. He went through several months of training, and how he's getting hands-on experience in the Dominican Republic. He wrote to me this morning that he's been ministering in orphanages, to those who have leprosy, and even prostitutes. Join me in asking God to use Sean in big ways. Sean will return home later this spring.
Sean at an orphanage.

Doing a skit for those with leprosy.

Baby Boom Continues...

2007-01-24T08:57:00.000-08:00

In case you haven't noticed, everybody is having babies! There are 7 expecting couples in Crossroads, and I couldn't be prouder of this group. Strong marriages, strong commitment to Christ and to each other is going to lead to some above-average kids! The latest...
Matt Kessler holds Brooke Kessler! Brooke arrived to Matt & Cessiah Kessler on Monday.
Shane Birr holds Serena Renee Birr! Serena was born to Shane & Anitra Birr on January 6!

2007-01-19T12:30:00.000-08:00

Very Interesting...

2007-01-06T00:51:00.000-08:00

I'm not responsible for the following link, but I find this counter voice long over-due. www.slicedlaodicea.com.

I'll have more to say on this when I return from Hawaii!

Jon

Crossroads on Ice 2006

2006-12-31T15:55:00.000-08:00

Here are our performers...
Here's Crossroads on concrete...
Deric, Rachel and Eric smiling
Rachel being herself
Nobody minds posing for the camera
A sister moment...Jessie & Danielle Shadd
Ryan and Paul catch up on a trip around the rink
Some people didn't skate as much as they ought...Windy, Amanda, Kristin & Cheryl

New Year's Eve...

2006-12-28T14:32:00.000-08:00

It's already the end of 2006, and what better way to bring in the new year than with friends! On Sunday at 6pm the church will be gathering in the gym for appetizers and a look back at 2006 through pictures and video. This is always a highlight, so make plans to be there.

Afterwards, you're invited over to the Kasper's, where we'll have snacks, games, and more as the night unfolds. Your friends are welcome too. This will start at apx. 8:30

The Kaspers live at 3138 W. Briarwood Dr. in Franklin. Map

3rd Annual Crossroads on Ice Tonight!

2006-12-27T08:49:00.000-08:00

Join your friends from Crossroads tonight for ice skating downtown! Skate rental is $5, and if you own your skates, it’s free. We will be meeting at 7pm at the rink, which is located across from the Marcus Center, at Water St. and Kilbourn Ave. There is a Starbucks rinkside, so you don’t need to worry about getting the chills. See you there! (There is no church tonight due to Christmas events)

Crossroads Christmas Party

2006-12-21T07:48:00.000-08:00

Cool Shirts...

2006-12-19T16:44:00.000-08:00

There is a guy from our church, Jordan, who has opened a kiosk at Mayfair Mall selling some pretty cool Christian T-shirts. Stephanie and I were shopping there yesterday, and we each found good gifts there. After talking to Jordan, I was able to see that this is a visible ministry in the midst of the busiest mall in the state, and I know he'd love a visit from you! His stand is located on the 1st floor in front of Express!

A Checklist for Change...

2006-12-19T13:37:00.000-08:00

In Sunday School this past week we discussed how change can be a major hurdle in having a beneficial attitude. Here are some questions that should be asked anytime a change is considered:

Will this benefit the followers?
Is this change compatible with the purpose of the organization?
Is this change specific and clear?
Are the top 20 percent (the influencers) in favor of this change?
Is it possible to test this change before making a total commitment to it?
Are physical, financial, and human resources available to make this change?
Is this change reversible?
Is this change the next obvious step?
Does this change have both short- and long-range benefits?
Is the leadership capable of bringing about this change?
Does everything else indicate the timing is right?

List is from The Difference Maker by John Maxwell.

The Story: Christmas 2006 Pictures

2006-12-14T07:54:00.000-08:00

Crossroads Christmas Party

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Make plans to join us for great food, games & fun this Saturday at the Crossroads Christmas Party! We will be meeting at the home of Jen Bernander in Franklin, and you can view a map here. Jen will be making some 'gourmet' food, Sandy Gudelsky will be baking her famous lasagna, and of course great desserts. There will be a white elephant gift exchange, so start hitting up the thrift stores (A white elephant gift is meant to be cheap and funny: entertainment is the goal)! We will be collecting $6 from each person to cover the costs of the food preparation. Please sign up by this Wednesday at church or at crossroads@oakcreekag.org. Your friends are welcome.

A new look for a good cause...This Sunday!

2006-12-07T12:10:00.000-08:00

Cut-A-Thon for Rob Wagner, brother of Jerad Pearson

19 year old Rob, an area resident for over 15 years and an outstanding young man, has recently been diagnosed with childhood bone cancer. With Robs tenacity and love of his family and friends, we know this is just another hurdle Rob will overcome!!!

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 10 2006, 10AM-6PM
Studio 890 Salon in Brookfield
Located in the Galleria Shopping Center (behind Kopps) 18900 West Bluemound Road, For more information call (262) 785-2890. 100% of all services will be donated to assist the family with expenses related to the treatment 10% of product and boutique purchases also will be donated to benefit. Cost is $20 for haircuts. And there will also be massage available.

I will be there, and I hope to see you too!

Wednesday at 7pm...

2006-12-05T13:13:00.000-08:00

Crossroads Sunday School

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2006-11-22T10:24:00.000-08:00

Thinking of the big picture...

Wow, last week in Crossroads was incredible. To hear so many of you share what God has done in you and through you in 2006 was very moving, and a tremendous reminder that we have much to be thankful for. Through many conversations this week, I am reminded of how blessed we are to have each other, and what an influence we can have for God when we work together. So whether things for you are going great, so-so, or not so good, take time to think up, and see the big picture of how God loves and leads us.

Tonight, our church family will meet together in the Sanctuary at 7 pm for a special one hour Thanksgiving service, where we’ll be looking at Psalms 117, and the example of gratitude. Make plans to be there, and to eat afterwards!

Next week in Crossroads is “The Net”, where will discuss how to use the internet for our good and the good of others. Plus real vs. virtual relationships! And save the date: The Crossroads Christmas Party is December 16!

2006-11-17T14:19:00.000-08:00

This Monday, November 20th you're invited to Stephanie and Rachel's apartment on the east side to hang out. Come on over anytime after 7:30, and bring something to eat. You'll watch a movie, look at jewelry, and do other girl stuff. If you have questions, you can contact Steph at mu_ricangirl@hotmail.com. Steph and Rachel live at 2508 E. Belleview Place, #33, in Milwaukee.

2006-11-14T14:36:00.000-08:00

Boundless Magazine has a great article on the decision whether to have alcohol served at a wedding. You can read the article here. I agree with his conclusion that the question to be asked is "how can we honor God in this wedding?" Your thoughts?

2006-11-10T10:42:00.000-08:00

Nate Turner has posted some great pictures from the 'Sunday After Dark' worship night on October 29. The pictures are in the gallery on the church website, and you can view them here. I would be interested to hear what you thought of this event. I want to express thanks to the many in Crossroads that worked so hard to make this an incredible night.

2006-11-08T13:21:00.000-08:00

Mike, Rachel, Hillary, Justin & I returned with our group from Israel this morning, and we can't wait to share some details of this incredible place with you tonight. We'll show some beautiful pictures, give away flutes from Bethlehem, and we'll pass around a an artifact that is 2,000 years old: a widow's mite. Come see why Jesus made such a big deal out of this small coin. Plus, Tonto, a missionary to Mexico will give us an update of what's happening south of the border. See you tonight at 7!

Should you vote November 7th?

2006-11-03T10:02:00.000-08:00

Mike Ganiere came across this article today at our kibbutz in Israel:

If you're stupid, don't vote
By DAN KENITZ
Posted: Nov. 2, 2006
Aside from what they actually vote for, what many people disagree on is whether or not it's the responsibility of eligible citizens to vote. Since you technically don't have to vote but might be wondering if it's right for you, I've assembled this list to help you discern whether or not you ought to vote.

• If you believe that it's everyone's responsibility to vote, you're stupid. Don't vote.
• If you're disillusioned with the entire democratic process because you don't like President Bush, voted against him twice yet he still got elected, you're stupid. Don't vote.
• If you understand the depth and nature of the American military's sacrifice from Bunker Hill to Baghdad and its continued importance to our survival as a nation and as a collective soul, you're smart. Vote.
• If you want to re-elect Gov. Jim Doyle because you saw a TV ad that says Rep. Mark Green gives kickbacks to Big Oil, you're stupid. Don't vote.
• If you want to vote for Green because you saw a TV ad that says Doyle gives kickbacks to everyone else, well, I think you're right but that doesn't necessarily make you smart. Don't vote.
• If you think Milwaukee Republicans got carried away about Democratic voter fraud in recent years while supporting voter ID requirements that make sure votes are being cast by actual people, join the Democratic Party, change your name to John Doe and vote 1,700 times.
• If you've already moved to China because it has bought up a majority of our debt and is moving closer to a democracy, you're smart - and disloyal. Send an absentee ballot.
• If you support the space program, vote twice.
• If you think "Barack Obama bin Laden" is the country's greatest threat since "Albert Hitler," congratulations on graduating from the U.S. public education system. But don't vote.
• If your primary motivation for voting is that someone offered you a pack of cigarettes if you vote for Candidate X, you're an honorary Democrat. Don't vote.
• If you view freedom not as something that you automatically should be entitled to just by existing but should be regularly and proactively exercised, you're smart. Vote.
• If you believe that Wisconsin needs to be more like Illinois, and therefore should have more tollways, move to Illinois and vote there.
• If you were asked who Chester A. Arthur was and you responded, "Did he start a sandwich franchise?" no points will be deducted - it was a good guess. You can vote.
• If you feel that your financial well-being is the responsibility of the government, the upper class, the middle class, your kids or anyone who's not you, you're stupid. Don't vote.
• If you get emotionally upset because a columnist called you stupid, don't vote. You're easily excitable and shouldn't have any say over who gets access to The Button.
Now, total up your score: Add a point for "vote"; subtract a point for "don't vote." If your score is zero or above, feel free to vote. If you got a negative number, steer clear from voting booths and longer words in general.
By the way, if you really use this list to figure out whether or not you should vote, you're stupid. Don't vote.
Dan Kenitz of Hartford is a writer who runs a political Web site, BipolarNation.com. His e-mail address is dan@bipolarnation.com
From the Nov. 3, 2006 editions of the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel

2006-10-29T05:58:00.000-08:00

Join young adults from across the city for volleyball, dodgeball, kickball, and other team sports! It's friendly competition at it's best, hosted here at Oak Creek. Cost is $5, which includes pizza, drinks, and snacks. Get to the gym today!

Weekend Update...

2006-10-27T08:38:00.000-07:00

Combined Crossroads Home Fellowship Tonight @ 7!
Join us tonight (Friday) as the classic/couples home fellowships combine for a bible study, food, and conversation. As always, new people are welcome. We will be meeting at Matt Turner’s condo in Bay View. For address and a map, click here. He lives in condo #5.

Sunday After Dark: This Sunday night at 7
Fresh, casual & dynamic: a new worship experience at Oak Creek Assembly of God. Be a part of this church-wide gathering as we celebrate the God working in our lives. There will be a café afterwards featuring a wide selection of desserts from the Cheesecake Factory.

An Opportunity to serve…
The family fall festival will take place next Friday, November 3rd at the church from 6pm - 8:30pm, and volunteers are needed to staff the games and concession areas. If you are able to help out, please contact Candi Daywitt at 762-2010 or cdaywitt@oakcreekag.org

Week of Prayer and Fasting

2006-10-24T09:39:00.000-07:00

Just a quick reminder that our church is participating in a nation-wide week of prayer and fasting this week, and I'd encourage you to participate in some way. And while fasting deals with food, it doesn't have to be limited to that. Perhaps you could spend more time with God this week by giving up some TV or Internet (stop reading this!) The prayer room at church will be open today until 8:30 pm, so you're welcome to come by. I will be in the prayer room from 4:00 pm - 6:30 pm, and it would be great to be joined by some of you. See you there!

A Birthday...

2006-10-19T13:23:00.000-07:00

Santy Perez has a birthday coming up, and you're invited. We're going to meet at the Pizza Hut on 27th Street & Edgerton Avenue next Saturday, October 28th at 7 pm. If you can come, let Santy know at 414-672-3311.

2006-10-13T12:23:00.000-07:00

This next Wednesday night in Crossroads is an opportunity for each of us to go all out for our friends. Crossroads will meet at 7 pm at church where our topic of ‘attractive body’ will be especially relevant to our guests. I’ve already made numerous invites, and I hope you will do the same. I was amazed at the impact God allowed us to have at our last friend night, and I'm excited for this time around!

After Crossroads we’ll be gathering at the clubhouse at the Jefferson Block, which is in the heart of the Third Ward. It’s a large 2 story clubhouse that’s posh and modern, and you’re going to love it! We’re going to have a blast hanging out, playing games, and eating the best of urban fare!

Make A Quick Benjamin...

2006-10-13T09:47:00.000-07:00

If you are 25 years old or better and would like to make $100 for answering questions about family values for 2 hours, contact Andrea Barnier @ zahanam@alverno.edu. Consider this manna.

2006-10-11T09:00:00.000-07:00

Like many of you, I really enjoy meeting people downtown at Mocha. For those of you who don't know about Mocha, it's a classy independant coffee shop at the intersection of Plankington and Wisconsin Avenues, in the middle of downtown. I haven't been down there for months, but I've been there twice this week with different people. And you'll never guess what happened to us both times: we were asked for money!

Both nights we were having great conversations about our relationships with God, but on our way out, in the busy doorway, we're hit up, and told a tragic story. The first night the individual told us they were just robbed on National Avenue. They asked if they could use a cell phone, we agreed, and then wanted money.

Last night, an elderly woman stopped us and asked for $20 dollars for groceries. My friend gave her $5; I offered to buy her something to eat; and the offer was declined.

As I walked to my car I had an uneasy feeling. Did I respond the way Jesus would have? I don't know. I always prepare myself to respond correctly, which includes trying to get a whiff of their alcohol-laced breath. But when the moment comes, I seem to always freeze up! I know there are no easy answers for the needy among us, but I'm probably better off when I have to struggle with these issues. Would Jesus give money? Would he go with them to buy food? Would he pray with them? Would he direct them to the Salvation Army? I know he'd show courtesy and love, but beyond that, I'm not sure. I'd love to know what you think is the right response.

2006-10-05T14:31:00.000-07:00

Our annual trek into the dark cornfields will happen next Saturday, October 14th, following the missions banquet*! We'll divide up into 2 teams, and it's a race against time to reach the finish line first. You are encouraged to bring your friends! We will carpool from the south lot at church, and the cost is apx. $7. Bring extra money to shoot the corn canons! It's a blast!

*In case you didn't know, that Saturday at 4p.m. is a time where our church gathers to eat food from around the world and hear what God is doing through the missionaries our church supports. Make plans to be there!

Young Adult Weekend 06'

2006-10-03T08:10:00.000-07:00

What a great weekend we had up at Spencer Lake! We enjoyed beautiful scenery and weather, great times of worship, a fantastic speaker, and overall lots of fun. Above is a picture of the OC next to the lake. For many, the highlight of the retreat was the Saturday night service, in which we discussed the passage where God gave Jacob a new name. This was a meaningful time for us, and I'd love for each one who was there to share about what God did in their life in this comment session. I'll start it off! Sunrise over Spencer Lake. Deric Goodman is the source of all these pictures. Thanks Deric!Some fellas go for a nature trek. Volleyball is always popular at camp.

Matt Ditzer goes for a spike!

Zeal for carpet ball consumes Amanda, Jennifer and Mike. I don't know these people! Okay, I do. I think they're modeling jeans. John Kavati and Dan Robinson strike a pose.

2006-09-22T13:40:00.000-07:00

This coming Wednesday in Crossroads we begin a series entitled 'Attractive Body'. We're taking a look at how we can honor God through various parts of the body. First up: eyes. What attracts your attention throughout the day, and what does the Bible say we should look at? An eye-opening evening September 27th.

PS-Crossroads Classic and Crossroads Couples are meeting tonight at 7 pm! See you there!

Your turn...

2006-09-21T13:21:00.000-07:00

I want to again express my thanks to Jim Cruse for coming to talk with us last night in Crossroads. Prophesy is a topic of interest to many of us, and Jim has certainly done a lot of research in this area. A lot of information was discussed last night, so I wanted to post some of that information here.

The websites that we looked at:
www.templeinstitute.com
www.bible-prophecy.com
www.fulfilledprophecy.com

Some words that were searched for on Google:

Babylon Iraq
EU Babylon
EU Statue
Nasco

Does anybody have any comments or questions on this material? We'd love to hear from you.

This Sunday at 9:30 a.m...

2006-09-15T14:09:00.000-07:00

Join Greg Mandigo & myself in C-112 as we continue to study how to live in our unique sweet spot of life. This week we'll explore how serving in the church can help us find our special giftings, how letting go of our reputation can set us free to do the extraordinary, and how we can make the most out of our jobs. We'll see you there!

Wednesday at 7pm...

2006-09-08T14:33:00.000-07:00

Join us Wednesday @ 7 pm as we begin a new series in Crossroads on “Attractive Body”. No, we’re not talking about liposuction or nose jobs, but rather how can we honor God with our bodies. This first week we’re going to look at our role in the greater body of Christ, and specifically, the role of Crossroads within our church. Pastor Brooks will be speaking to us this evening and sharing his vision for our age group. We will end the night with a Q & A time, so if you’ve been curious as to what’s happening around the church, this will be the time to get answers!

Tonight @ 7pm...

2006-09-06T12:31:00.000-07:00

Make plans to head on out to Crossroads tonight; I promise you it will be a very interesting evening. We have a guest speaker, Jim Cruse, who will be teaching on how to properly interpret the prophesies in Revelation, and how current events play in the mix. Then afterwards you're invited to one of 9 after parties. These are the places to be for food, fun, and new friends. Speaking of friends, bring one out tonight. See you there!

2006-09-05T12:07:00.000-07:00

The day has finally come to go back to school, and I'm excited because I don't have to go! No, the reason I'm excited is because I am excited about all the people in Crossroads who will be hitting local colleges as students and the growing number of teachers we have. In short, I think you have everything needed to make a big impact for God in our city. Wether you're a teacher or a student, please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers, and I look forward to us working together.

News from Sunday: There were 17 people who were between the ages of 18-25 that came forward for prayer and to receive Bible studies. I got to talk with several of these individuals, and I can tell you firsthand that God really touched their lives Sunday night. I mailed off invites to this group this morning, so make sure to make room for them this Wednesday! And plan on going to an afterparty afterwards at one of 9 locations! Everybody is invited.

Weekend Update...

2006-08-31T14:06:00.000-07:00

Join us on Wednesday nights in September as we open the book of Revelation and explore prophesies that have already occured and some that are yet to come. The Bible has much to say about what's next for our world, so don't miss these special messages by guest speaker Jim Cruse! And don't forget about all the house parties that will be happening afterwards! A great night to bring a friend.

The young adult weekend is coming up September 29-October 1st at Spencer Lake, and you need to be there. If you register by 9/15, cost is $65. After 9/15 the cost is $75. This will be a great time of getting closer to God and getting away from it all. There will be an excellent worship team and speaker, relevant workshops, bonfires, the lake, sports & games, and lots of new friends. For more information on this retreat, click here.

Tonight @ 7pm is the final week of...

2006-08-30T10:05:00.000-07:00

Join us tonight as Matt & Gina Ditzer contrast society's and the Bible's pictures of marriage. And bring your probing questions, as our marriage panel will be back. Marriage might be a lot closer for you than you think, so get the right start tonight in Crossroads.

Mike Kramer has informed me that he is starting a marriage enrichment series on 9/16 at the Franklin library, and is looking for people to help with child care. If you're interested, call Mike or Beth at 414-421-8740.

Finally, this past Saturday was so much fun at the rock wall. As you may or may not know, Crossroads sponsored the rock wall this year at the Son-Shine Festival, and it was a big hit. In fact, I would estimate at least 400 people climbed the wall during 3 hours. I'll share more observations about this day later.

Picnic and Softball Game with Kenosha First Assembly

2006-08-26T19:55:00.000-07:00

Tonight @ 7pm...

2006-08-23T07:25:00.000-07:00

Join us for week 2 of ‘How to Not Marry a Loser!’. The guys and gals will break up into separate groups, where we’ll discuss reasons why girls settle for the wrong guy, and vice versa. We’ll also look at the requirements scripture lays out for what the person we marry looks like! This will be a very interesting study, so don’t miss out, and bring a friend!

Weekend Update...

2006-08-18T09:49:00.000-07:00

Make sure to take some time out tonight to join us for Six 2 Six; non-stop worship, praise & prayer from 6 pm tonight to 6 am Saturday. This extended window of time is the perfect opportunity to get away with God, and to hear from him. It's worth the time.

And don't forget our cookout and co-ed softball match-up this Sunday at 12:30! Bring a lawn chair or blanket if possible, and a glove or bat if you have one.

Meet Peter...

2006-08-15T09:11:00.000-07:00

One of the new guys that has been coming out to Crossroads lately is Peter Jakubowski. He is a student at UWM, and is a fantastic photographer. You can take a look at some of his pictures on his site. And be sure to meet someone new this week!

Stain on Couch

2006-08-12T19:41:00.000-07:00

I've been going over some final revisions on my sermon for tomorrow morning, and I accidently got some black pen marks on my sofa. I didn't know what exactly to do, so I went online to see if there was information on cleaning microfiber furniture. I came across this site, and found it hillarious! You need to check it out. And if you know how to get rid of pen marks, let me know tomorrow at church! Soap and warm water didn't work.

This Wednesday at 7 pm...

2006-08-08T08:17:00.000-07:00

This week in Crossroads we're beginning a new 3 week series on finding the right one God's way. Matt & Gina Ditzer will be teaching this Wednesday on 'What your married friends aren't telling you'. What are some of the biggest misconceptions about life after marriage, and what does the Bible say about preparing for matrimony? I promise you you'll laugh and learn a whole lot this month, so I'll see you and a friend tomorrow at 7!

Crossroads Softball 2006

2006-08-06T16:14:00.000-07:00

Ladies and Gentlemen, your 2006 Crossroads softball team! Thanks to the great leadership of Gabe Ledbetter, this 2 year old team improved their record from 3-12 last season to 10-5 this year!

Here's our coach, Gabe, scoring yet another run.

Ryan Banks, although exhausted, always gets the job done.

Tim Williams has a magnet in his glove. It's amazing-he never drops a ball.

Deric Wallace plays shotstop. He goes by 'DW' or 'Derelict'

Crossroads games are more fun because Crossroad fans are more fun! This picture doesn't necessarily capture the excitement, though.

Rain Delay...

2006-08-06T10:47:00.000-07:00

Just as we talked about in the services this morning, sometimes the best laid plans change. We will be rescheduling our softball match-up against Kenosha for a later Sunday due to the rain. I'll keep you posted.

This Sunday...(directions to park listed below)

2006-08-04T08:01:00.000-07:00

Have you noticed the amount of uncertainty around lately? Everyone is talking about the fighting in the Middle East, rising gas prices, and wondering if we're headed towards some really hard days. But did you know that there is a promise found in Deuteronomy that tells us as Christians we have nothing to worry about? Don't miss the services this Sunday morning!

Then after 2nd service join us for the Crossroads cookout! Play in or watch our co-ed softball match-up against Kenosha Assembly's young adult group!

The cookout will be at Jewell Park, which is less than 1 mile from the church. Directions: Turn left out of parking lot, and turn left on Rawson Ave. Turn right on 20th Street, and turn right on Wood Ave. The Park will be on the left, and we'll be cooking towards the playground area.

If you have a chair, bring a chair! See you there!

Due to Vacation Bible School...

2006-08-01T13:19:00.000-07:00

Brooks, Lutter & Woods at US Bank Open...

2006-08-01T09:47:00.000-07:00

Look who Aaron and I got to hang out with Sunday up at Brown Deer!

No Crossroads August 2nd, but...

2006-07-29T08:47:00.000-07:00

Join us August 6th after church for a grillout and softball match-up against the young adult group from Kenosha First Assembly of God! Start spreading the word, and start hitting the cages! If you're interested in helping out in grilling, or want to be part of one of the teams, contact Jon.

In case you missed it...

2006-07-26T13:02:00.000-07:00

TV-MKE, which has a story about me and my beautiful sister Stacey, will be on again tonight at 10:30 p.m. on channel 10! I think you'll find the video quite funny, so don't miss it. See you all tonight!

2006-07-25T16:53:00.000-07:00

Friday will be a great time of getting together with other young adult groups from around the state for tailgating and baseball. Both Crossroads home fellowship groups will be combining to participate in this event. Tickets cost $12, and you will need to sign up by Wednesday night. We will carpool from the church at 5 p.m. Friday. For more information contact Mike or Stef Harman.

Girls/Guys Night This Saturday!

2006-07-20T14:20:00.000-07:00

Meet at Jon Brooks’ this Saturday at 5:30 p.m. for golf, dinner, and other manly activities. Jon lives at 210 W. Oak Leaf Dr. #3 in Oak Creek. Map. Golfers of all skill levels are welcome, and we'll be teeing off at the Woodlands course in Oak Creek.

?-Call Jon @ 339-4631
Meet at Gina Ditzer’s this Saturday at 5:30 p.m. for a night out on the town at la fuente (Spanish: fountain) Gina lives at 5931 S. Honey Creek Dr. in Greenfield. Map.

?-Call Gina @ 281-0916.

Friend Nite tomorrow!

2006-07-18T13:12:00.000-07:00

The anticipation for friend nite is growing! In fact, some are borrowing their parent's Suburbans to bring all their friends tomorrow, and you should too!

If you have friends that you've been sharing Christ with, our topic tomorrow will meet them right where they're at. We'll discuss the common viewpoint that good people go to heaven, and why this theory doesn't hold much water.

We'll also be playing "Who wants to be a Hundredaire?", and all 1st or 2nd time guests , along with the person who brought them will be eligable to play! This was made possible through the gift of several individuals who want to bless our friends.

Finally, the evening will conclude with free pizza, desserts, drinks, games, and swimming at the Woodcreek clubhouse in Oak Creek. I promise you that you'll have a blast, so I look forward to seeing you and a friend(s) tomorrow night!

2006-07-14T12:49:00.000-07:00

You've seen the show, and now the game is coming to Crossroads this Wednesday for Friend Nite! By correctly answering a series of questions, and through several helps such as 50/50 and ask the audience, you could win up to $100! All first or second-time guests will be eligable to play, along with the person who brought them, so start making your invites this weekend! This game is made possible by the generous gift of several individuals who love visitors! This Wednesday is all about rolling out the red carpet for our friends, and showing them how much fun it can be to serve Jesus!

Remember after Crossroads this Wednesday we'll have a great time at the Woodcreek clubhouse! There will be free pizza, drinks, desserts, games, and swimming! It won't be the same without you!

2006-07-13T12:52:00.000-07:00

Late last night I spoke with Eric Sandoval, who is serving on the ship pictured above in Hawaii. Eric attended Crossroads since 2003 until he took this new position last month with Norweigan Cruise Lines. He has taken many pictures, and if you'd like to look at them, you can visit his site here. Eric would love to hear from you when you have the time, so give him a call!

Last night my interview on PBS was aired at 9:30 p.m. If you missed it, you can watch it again tonight on channel 10 at 10:30 p.m. I think you'll find it pretty funny!

Lastly, for once the Journal Sentinel had an intelligent editorial today regarding the teacher at UW Madison who is teaching that 9/11 was really a plot by President Bush rather than mass murder by Islamists. You can't tell fiction as fact, and hide behind 'academic freedom', and you can read the editorial here.

Be good to one another!

2006-07-11T13:20:00.000-07:00

Here is the follow-up article from Boundless Magazine, allowing us guys to get into the minds of the Crossroads gals!

What Girls Wish You Knew
by Suzanne Hadley

Meet Joe. Joe is your average single Christian guy. Joe is frustrated. He feels like he's doing all the right things to secure a godly woman of noble character, but women just aren't responding. Joe believes women are hung up on some image of the perfect man — part J. Crew, part Jesus Christ — that simply does not exist.

Little does Joe know his female friends would have a few things to say if he'd only ask. While these lovely creatures appreciate good looks, charm and sensitivity as much as the next girl, they're not as hung up on these things as Joe thinks. Here are a few things they'd like Joe to know.

Show some respect. When it comes to respecting women, many Christian guys act no differently than the world. When I hear a man talk about other women disrespectfully, it is an immediate turn-off. I've been around guys who, because they're not interested in me, freely label attractive women as "hot" and apply unflattering labels to less attractive women. Even if this kind of talk is passed off as a joke, language that objectifies women is immature and offensive.

A man displays another kind of respect through his actions. When he opens doors, offers a woman his seat or walks her to her car, he communicates deference. Some guys will pour on the charm when they take a girl out on a date, but they don't demonstrate the same consideration to their female friends. Even something as simple as keeping his house clean, so women feel comfortable when they visit, will make the women in his life feel valued.

Be kind to everyone. Men may be surprised by how often a woman is evaluating them in a simple interaction they have with someone else. I not only look at the way a potential suitor treats me, I also watch how he treats others. Consistent kindness is an outward sign of inner character shaped by Christ. The same goes for service and generosity.

My friend Julie notes the first time she found herself attracted to her now-husband, Nate, was when she observed him give away something of value to an acquaintance. "I thought, 'he's so generous,'" she says. They were only friends at the time, but Julie was drawn to his giving spirit — a quality that has continued in their marriage.

Seek out spiritual guidance and accountability. Many guys I've talked to seem mystified by this elusive "spiritual leader" Christian women say they are looking for. In frustration, I've heard these guys suggest that this ideal doesn't exist — "there are only so many pastors to go around." But the women I've talked to seem more concerned with evidence that a guy is engaged in the spiritual process than some benchmark of super-spirituality.

When I am getting to know a guy, one of the first things I consider is whether he is seeking accountability from other Christian men. A lone ranger is a red flag. While women naturally dwell in community, this kind of connection requires more of an effort for men. That does not mean it is less important. A man who takes accountability seriously shows that he wants his life to be laid bare and is inviting input into his blind spots. There is also less of a chance that he is fostering a hidden sin that has the potential to destroy a marriage. Similarly, a man who seeks out a mentor demonstrates a desire to develop his spiritual life under godly authority.

Love your family. My mom often tells the story of the first time she knew she wanted to marry my dad. It happened while they were visiting my dad's brother and his family. Upon arriving at his brother's house, my dad jumped out of the car and ran to his 3-year-old niece. "Little Weee-o!" he called, scooping her up and tossing her in the air. In that moment, my mom saw a future husband and father.

Women also notice how men treat their sisters, mothers and grandmothers. A woman feels safe when she sees a healthy and genuine love between a man and the female members of his family. This doesn't mean he has to get along with them perfectly, but if he shows initiative to have a good relationship with them, a woman trusts he will take that same initiative in his relationship with her.

Take marriage seriously. For many of my guy friends, marriage is something they never talk about. Even if they're thinking about getting married someday, there is no evidence that they're planning for it.

My friend Hannah married one year ago. Several months after her wedding, she and her husband felt a call to go to France as missionaries. Within three months they were ready to go. When I asked her how all their financial needs were being met, she revealed a secret: "John has been saving for a wife," she said. "He was able to pay off my college loans and both of our cars."
I deeply admire such foresight. While every guy may not be able to achieve such financial goals, taking steps that show he is preparing for marriage — even just talking about it — demonstrates to a woman that he's serious about being a provider.

Another evidence of readiness is a willingness to take on responsibilities. Many guys choose to continue living the carefree life they enjoyed in college, instead of embracing the new duties that come with adulthood. Those who consistently make wise choices in how they use resources, such as time and money, stand out. "I'm not looking for a boy," a friend recently said. "I'm looking for a man."

Take initiative. I recently heard my friend Danielle describe how God had brought her together with her husband, Josh. After knowing each other for several years, Danielle and Josh began leading a small group together. Feeling ready to marry, 21-year-old Josh prayed that God would show him if there was a woman in the church suitable to be his wife. When no one came to mind after several weeks, Josh asked a trusted friend if he saw anyone.

"What about Danielle?" the friend asked. Josh began praying specifically about Danielle. In the meantime, Danielle felt her heart moved romantically toward Josh when she had never seriously considered him before. After consulting with Danielle's father, Josh approached her and asked if they might get to know each other for the possibility of marriage. A year later they were married.

This example may seem extreme, but it demonstrates the power of intentionality. I have been in meaningful friendships with great Christian guys who never took the initiative to explore the possibility of something more. On the flipside, I have considered relationships with men I thought of only as friends because they impressed me with their initiative.

Take a Risk. Ultimately many guys let potential relationships dissipate because they let the moment of decision pass them by. They need to know that women respond to courage.
My brother has never been exactly a smooth operator. In fact, we sisters cautioned him not to use his corny humor outside the safety of our home. After getting to know Anna for a semester his freshman year of college, my brother began experiencing feelings for her. She was my best friend, so the three of us naturally hung out and they connected easily. Matt decided he wanted to pursue Anna, so one evening he invited her to a coffee shop to talk.

Anna recalls that the music was loud, so my brother practically yelled as he began to tell her all the qualities he appreciated in her. Just as Matt was building momentum, a song suddenly ended. At that moment, every person in that coffee shop heard him say loudly, "I really like you." Anna, now Matt's wife, fondly recalls the embarrassment of that moment. That night she was taken by surprise and unable to reciprocate Matt's feelings, but she was impressed by his directness. Within two months, she had gone from seeing him as my little brother to being enamored with his bold leadership — and corny jokes.

Joe may feel like throwing in the towel, but he may be closer than he thinks to a breakthrough. The women in his life aren't looking for perfection. They are watching for consistent kindness, unflinching respect and honest initiative.

As Joe cultivates these characteristics, women will notice. And Joe may realize they're not looking for J. Crew Jesus after all — they're looking for Jesus in him.

Mandigo/Supita Wedding Video

2006-07-07T07:32:00.000-07:00

Well Greg and Jamie Mandigo returned home last night from their honeymoon, as they got married on July 1st. Nate Turner made a great wedding video for the reception, and for all of you who weren't able to make the drive to Crivitz, you can watch the video here!

2006-07-06T14:33:00.000-07:00

I came across the following article in Boundless Magazine. Tell me what you think! -Jon

What Guys Wish You Knew
by John Thomas

Meet Jane. Jane is your average single Christian gal. Jane has all the education and career opportunities a person could ask for, has lots of friends, loves her church, and for the most part thoroughly enjoys this season in her life. Except for one thing. She's ready — been ready — to meet a guy. Not just any guy, but the guy.

The problem is that she doesn't get asked out on very many dates, and when she does, the guy either turns out to be a disappointment, or worse, turns out to be someone she'd like to get to know better, but the feeling isn't mutual.

Jane thinks, Where are all the good guys? Is there something wrong with me? She wonders whether Christian guys are much different from non-Christian guys, who seem to be interested only in looks and popularity, searching for a Jesus-loving supermodel, the Jesus part being optional.

Not so, say the "good" guys. If they had a chance to sit down with Jane, here's what they'd say.
Drop the mask. My friend Barry told me that one of the things that initially drew him to his wife was when he noticed her disarming way of laughing at herself. "It wasn't the self-condescending I'm so ignorant kind of thing," he recently told me. "It was total security in who she was, not being afraid to let her imperfections show and be vulnerable. That takes guts, and it was very attractive to me because it showed me how secure she was as a person."

This cuts both ways, of course, but the "good" guys are hoping to find a girl who's authentic — the real deal — who's not hiding behind what she thinks people want to see. If she talks a good Christian line, but seems concerned more with how people "perceive" her rather than being comfortable with who she is, that's a turn-off. Guys see that as an attempt to compensate for what she lacks. A woman who is secure in who she is — honest about her weaknesses and humble about her strengths — is a woman who is hard to resist.

Put "looks" in its place. A friend once told me that he finally worked up the nerve to ask out on a date a gorgeous girl on his campus. Her physical beauty was striking and her style was exquisite, but her shallowness became quickly evident as they spent time together. Although she professed to be a Christian, her priorities didn't add up. "The conversation couldn't seem to get past her obsession with clothes, hair, shoes, sunglasses and cell phones," he told me. To appropriately care is good. To obsess is not pretty.

A guy wants a girl who cares how she looks, of course. Concern about one's appearance is a sign of social maturity. But an unbalanced concern, in either direction, is unattractive. Few women take the extreme view of "who gives a rip" and just present themselves without any care for how they look, although I've seen it and it sends the message that "I don't care enough about anyone's opinion to do anything about it" — not the message to send to potential suitors.
The other extreme is more common: a constant preoccupation with looks (yours and others). Notice what single guys are not saying. They're not saying not to think about or not care about your looks. How you present yourself is a reflection of a healthy self-image, and that's good. Being stylish is not a bad thing in and of itself, but for one's joy to be determined by the acquisition of the latest trend, style or look is not attractive.

Be a warrior. I remember the first time I realized how beautiful my now-wife Alfie is. We were working at a summer youth camp together as staff counselors, and we were barely acquaintances. There were plenty of young, single Christian girls working on staff, and Alfie was one of the quieter ones, so it was easy to miss her if you weren't looking. But you couldn't miss her character. I was blown away by her warrior's heart. Her endless willingness to work hard under less-than-optimal conditions, her gentleness and patience with kids who tried every nerve, her dedication to praying for them, and her graceful way of handling difficult situations were qualities that were impossible to ignore. To be honest, it was after I noticed all of those "grace" qualities that her physical beauty became so obvious to me.

You're wondering, But I thought the guy was supposed to be the warrior. You're right, he is supposed to be a warrior, and so are you. There are many battles to fight, and it isn't just men who are called to fight them. Your concern and compassion for the world around you, and your taking action to shine God's light into whatever part of the world He has placed you, speaks volumes about the kind of lover and parent you would be.

Develop an authentic, adventuresome and risky faith, one willing to follow God wherever He leads. Don't mistake femininity for passive, inactive faith. Are you willing to get in the trenches and get a little dirt on your face for Christ? Nothing is more beautiful. Marriage and parenthood require a warrior's tenacity. When a girl is willing to love the unlovely and give without thought of receiving anything in return, guys take notice.

Less criticism, more support. OK. This is going to sound like the guys are making excuses, but hear us out. Everything — I mean everything — in this world is trying to keep us from maturing into manhood. The culture is holding nothing back in an attempt to keep us passive boys, and many of us are fighting it tooth-and-nail with every weapon we can get our hands on. We're frustrated about the fact that at times our fears — of relationships, of the future, of, yes, women — paralyze us. A single guy is his upper 20s recently wrote me about a girl he's interested in, and lamented, "The only problem is that since I developed feelings for her, I am terrified to talk to her. Whenever I see her it's like I freeze up. My heart starts racing, my palms get all sweaty, I get butterflies in my stomach, and I have a hard time saying anything to her." Sounds like he's in love, and she hasn't a clue. But at least he wrote us seeking advice. He wants to change.
Most young men have had little in the way of authentic Christian masculinity modeled for them, so they're blazing new territory. They're not there yet, but they're working on it, and they are often as disappointed in their progress as you are. Just remember, even though there's a lot more of what he doesn't know than what he does know, he's learning, so don't give up on him yet. Your support means everything to him. Ask how you can pray for him; speak words of encouragement; if you notice his efforts toward maturity and manhood, let him know. It'll do wonders for him.

Remember the good guy. When I told a single friend I was going to write this column, the fire hose opened full blast. "It's frustrating that no one speaks on the behalf of the good guy. Girls don't seem to even acknowledge his existence." Another young man wrote, "The girls say they want a good guy, but they always seem to choose the bad boy. The good guys are here, but nobody seems to care."

Single Christian guys the world over, when they hear a Christian girl wonder where all the good guys are, scream a collective "right here!" Although it might seem, from Jane's perspective, that these guys are nowhere to be found, they want you to know they are all around you, and they are looking for you. They would tell you that not every guy is a jerk, not every guy is passive, and not every guy is interested only in skin-deep beauty.

The good guy can be like the great restaurant that only locals know about. The tourists miss it because they fall for the "traps" of the neon sign and convenient location of the franchise, not realizing that the best is tucked away just a few blocks over. The good guy is more a discovery, finding him can take more effort because you have to work your way past all the flash of the franchise guy. He could be working in the cubicle next to you, or sitting just a few rows over in class, or playing guitar in your church small group. Take the time to get to know him. The one who might be easy to overlook could turn out to be the best kept secret.

Hang in there, Jane. The good guys are out there, and they're looking for you, hoping that when they find you they've found someone who is pursuing an authentic, adventuresome faith, who supports more than she criticizes, and whose priorities are rightly balanced. Concentrate on that picture, and guys — the kind you want — will find it hard to look away.

July 3rd Fireworks

2006-07-02T20:58:00.000-07:00

Join us Monday for the lakefront fireworks! We'll be carpooling from the south lot at church at 7 p.m. If you live near downtown, you can meet up with us in the area between the art museum and war memorial, just off the lake. Afterwards everyone is invited to Mike and Kelly Ganiere's! See you there.

PS-It's official: we have another married couple: Mr. and Mrs. Greg Mandigo! Their wedding was Saturday in Crivitz, and was well done.

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